So I get asked a lot if I'm afraid of ghosts. That's because I am an amateur "ghost hunter", and not just because it's the popular thing to do. I've been doing paranormal investigations since I was quite young. You could call me a "hipster ghost hunter", because I did it before it was cool. So the answer to the above question is NO, I'm not afraid of ghosts. I'm afraid of drowning, or not being able to breathe, but I'm not afraid of the paranormal.
You see, I was exposed to spirit activity at a very young age. I won't go into too much detail right here, at least not yet, but I will tell you how I became a
paranormal investigator (since I don't care much for the term ghost hunter).
I was about 11 or 12 years old and I was at home watching my three younger brothers one night while my parents were out with my sister for some school related thing. We lived in a turn of the century two story home with a basement. It was getting late and my brothers wanted to "camp out" in the living room. They had gathered their sleeping bags, placed them out in front of the TV, and fell asleep while watching the television that night. I checked on them once more before lying down in my parents bedroom, waiting for them to come home. I knew it what time they would arrive, which was only about an hour away, and I lay down without any intent to go to sleep.
The children's bedrooms were on the upper floor while my parents' room was just below my bedroom. Shortly after I laid down to rest, I heard footsteps from the second floor. Loud footsteps. Stomping back and forth, coupled with something that sounded like a heavy dragging noise. I hadn't even closed my eyes when this started to happen. I got up, sure that my brother's had gotten out of their sleeping bags and were upstairs playing around. But when I went into the living room, everyone was sound asleep. I opened the door to the steps leading upstairs and no lights were on and I could no longer hear the footsteps.
But it was then that I could hear whispering coming from the kitchen. I walked in there, not sure of what I would find. No matter how close I came to the kitchen, though, the whispering seemed to get further away until I could follow it through the kitchen and into the steps leading to the basement. That's where I stopped. I knew I was not prepared to go further, because down those steps and into the dark space below the house I could hear several voices whispering as though there was a quiet cocktail party happening downstairs.
At that point, I hurried back into my parents bedroom, turning all the lights on (of course) and waited for my parents to return. That was the longest hour of my life, and I didn't tell them anything about my experience when they returned. I was just glad that they were home.
It was then that I vowed to myself to figure out what was going on. I did not tell anyone about it yet because I wanted to figure it out before going to someone and sounding like a silly child that was trying to scare my brothers. Whenever we had our family trip to the library every week (those were the days before you could research anything on the internet), I would seek out books on the paranormal and hauntings. I devised my own experiments and investigations based on what I had read. I even kept journals about the things I tested and the results.
So, no,
I'm not afraid of ghosts. At least, not anymore. I educated myself about them and the fear will disappear from something if you understand what it is all about. I now seek to help others understand the phenomena as well. I hope I have helped others when they tell me about things that happen in their homes and I bring my specialty kit (which is so much more advanced than when I was a kid!). I can show them that the bump they hear in the night is just the house settling or the dog knocking things over. But sometimes, it really is a person on another plain that is invisible to us just walking through it's existence.
Someday I will hope to bring my childhood experiences with the paranormal into the form of one of my stories. I have had so many, too many to write in here, and these events are wonderful fodder for story telling. And these experiences have not just been limited to my childhood. I am currently in the process of compiling my paranormal experiences during OB/GYN residency in a novel, dazzled up of course in the form of a thrilling fiction. This one has been in the works for a very long time, but when the muse of writing tells me to continue with this, then I will.
In the meantime, one of the books I ended up loving but totally freaked me out as a kid was
"The Most Haunted House in England" by
Harry Price, who was a ghost hunter before it was cool too. This was his real-life account of his investigation of the Borley Rectory in England at the turn of the century. I recommend reading this, but you will want to do it with the lights on.
Until next time,
LLAP (live long and prosper)
(in remembrance of Leonard Nimoy, who is hopefully watching all of us with a smile)